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Sunday, 9 November 2008

beware of Tabarruj ( a deadly disease to Female)

today i finished reading a book about tabarruj(bersolek) by Almarhumah Hajjah Ni'mat Sidqi,a very well known muslimah in Egypt. The book had already been published more than 18 times.

this book is quite good for people, especially muslim women who make up their face,wear the scarfs or tudung as a hijab. It actually straighten out things like whether these are the correct way of wearing a hijab or not.

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pic A and B shows some of the popular way to wear a scarf/tudung in malaysia.if u still think it is alright to wear hijab like the above pictures... well, im telling it straight to you , these are not hijab. An-Nur31 : "dan hendaklah mereka menutupkan kain tudung ke dadanya, dan jgn menampakkan perhiasannya..." ...sometimes its hard to tell the girls how to wear hijab properly, so , please watch this video clip. it is quite funny really but full of important messages .(^_^)


other than proper hijab, in the book, it states out a hadith "Andainya wanita keluar dari rumah serta memakai bau-bauan, maka dia sudah dianggap melakukan perzinaan"--so, u get the point bout perfumes right :D

other stuffs that interest me , Al-Ahzab:33 "..dan janganlah kamu bersolek seperti solekan org2 Jahiliyyah yang dahulu.." --so, last time(traditionally) women wore make-up, show off their body..lets try not to follow them.,

one last thing that caught my interest, a hadith riwayat sayyidina Ali :
"saya dgn Fatimah pergi mengadap Rasulullah saw. kami dapati baginda sedang menangis lalu kami bertanya kepadanya :"Apakah yang menyebabkan ayahanda menangis, ya Rasulullah?"

Rasulullah menjawab :"Aku lihat ada perempuan rambutnya tergantung, otaknya menggelegak. Aku lihat perempuan yang digantung lidahnya, tangannya terikat ke belakang dan Qathran(air yang menggelegak) dicurahkan ke dalam halkumnya.Aku lihat perempuan tergantung, kedua kakinya diikat, tangannya terikat ke arah ubun-ubunnya dan disuakan dengan ular dan kala"
"Aku lihat perempuan yang memakan badannya sendiri, dibwahnya dinyalakn api. Aku melihat perempuan yang memotong tubuhnya dgn gunting drp api neraka. Aku lihat perempuan yg bermuka hitam, memakn tali perutnya sendiri. Aku lihat perempuan yg telinganya pekak dan matanya buta, diisi ke dalam sebuah peti yang diperbuat daripada api neraka, otaknya keluar dari lubang hidungnya, badannya berbau busuk, krn berpenyakit sopak dan kusta. Aku lihat perempuan kepalanya spt babi, badannya spt badan keldai, beribu-ribu kesengsaraan yg dirasainya. Aku lihat perempuan , rupanya spt anjing, kala dan ular masuk ke kemaluannya, atau ke mulutnya dan kluar di duburnya. Alaikat memukul kepalanya dgn corong drp api neraka."

--nak pendekkan hadis, Fatimah asked Rasulullah wat did the women did.
red:women yg x tutup rambut drp lelaki bkn muhrim
green:kluar rmh tanpa izin suami,n x mandi suci drp haid n nifas
blue: BERHIAS utk lelaki yg bkn suaminya dan suka mengumpat org
yellow: perkenalkan dirinya kpd org asing, BERSOLEK n BERHIAS supaya kecantikannya itu dilihat oleh lelaki yg lain.
..+++ and etc.

im just pointng out the main points. Allah's is so Great in His Punishment, it trembles me, **see how deadly this tabarruj disease can be??**
so,If you wanna wear hijab, wear it properly so that you wont loose. GAnbatte ne minna :D

3 comments:

Abdul Jalil said...

ii adobaisudesss.. moshi arayuru no josei wa kono koto o wakattara ii na..

aqila-jp said...

kore mitsuketa kedo, totemo suteki to omou yo->
One day a child ask his father,papa why do i have to wear veils? Her father replied have you seen the diamonds and golds embedded in rocks,pearls hidden in deep sea? They are kept and hidden by God coz they are precious and valuable.Only few can have them and touch them..Just like you my dear child,to God and to me you are precious and valuable so you must be kept and hidden..Only those deserving ones can see your real beauty in this world.

clumzycaffein said...

sou desuka?
gomen2..wakaranai kara.
huhu..oshiete kureta arigatou ne.
sje2 je ltak entry cmtu..
:P